Wednesday, June 4, 2008

4 T's to a relationship

Recent trend is 'failed relationships.' Divorce rate is escalating. There is failure in parent-child relationship. Friendship is not the same as it used to be.

Here is my little wisdom on successfully maintaining a relationship. (My wisdom comes from merely observing my family's and other's relationship with each other) Let me call it Four T's for a great relationship.


1. Time
2. Talk
3. Touch
4. Treat


Time
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* Each relationship requires time from both parties.
* It is important to take time out to spend with one another to maintain the relationship.

Talk
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* Talk it out.
* You must have something in common to talk about to maintain the relationship
* Ask/Listen
* Talk about feelings (only if the other party is comfortable)
* Communicate, keep things simple
* Communicate even small issues. It's important to get the small things figured and solved immediately.

Touch
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* A pat in the back
* A hug
* Cuddle

Treat
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* Treat the other with praise
* Show your appreciation by your actions.
* Smile at them
* Example, treat them with a small ice-cream party just because you like them.

-DONE-